How many times have people turned this kind of thing around and made their spouse come back?
These are two different things. One you have control of and one you dont.
You can be the best person in the world, and it doesnt ensure your spouse will change their mind.
Thats why it's essential to focus on what you can control: YOU.
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I asked my L this question, he said out of every 10 couples who come to him to process their D, about 3-4 decide not to go through with it for some reason. hope that helps.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16