Here how my story goes and how we have slid.

We have gone from

Sept - Dec 2015 - Hi tension, etc, etc

Jan - May 2016 - In house Sep

May 22 - today - She moved out.

So no closer to what I want - but I'm a different person than I was in Sept 2015. I needed this crisis to get myself back on track.

I know what it takes to make a marriage work, I have:

a better relationship with my 3 kids

All kinds of new skills - cooking, baking, house keeping, gardening

A much better home - all maintenance projects are up to date, etc

A stronger network of supporters - Also you find out who your real friends are - some disappear

A couple of new friends

Even she see's that I'm changing - if not for her but the kids and I.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017