So no closer to what I want - but I'm a different person than I was in Sept 2015. I needed this crisis to get myself back on track.
I know what it takes to make a marriage work, I have:
a better relationship with my 3 kids
All kinds of new skills - cooking, baking, house keeping, gardening
A much better home - all maintenance projects are up to date, etc
A stronger network of supporters - Also you find out who your real friends are - some disappear
A couple of new friends
Even she see's that I'm changing - if not for her but the kids and I.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017