If it were me, I'd go to the bbq, but I wouldn't use it as an opportunity to pursue your wife.
Cop1,
That sentence sounds a little funny. I didn't mean that I wouldn't pursue your wife, I meant that you shouldn't pursue your wife. I wouldn't pursue you wife, at least not while she's your wife. That doesn't sound right either. I'm certain I'd want to pursue your wife if your wife wasn't your wife and if I didn't know she'd been your wife. I think I might be digging a deeper hole. I'm still married and you're married too, why did you bring up the whole bbq thing in the first place? Now I'm confused.
