lil bit of an update. . .W has been gone a few weeks now. I've been doing a great job (I think) of detaching. I'm not initiating any communication, and I am not affected by any of her actions. Actually, I'm not even sure what she has been up to, and right now, I do not care.
She asked if she could take the dogs to her famiy's property for the holiday. Its in the country and one of my dogs hates fireworks, so sure, no prob. She came to pick them up. It was a short meeting, I could tell she wasn't super comfortable. She took them and had her dad drop them off.
W texts me yesterday asking if I want to go out to dinner. I agreed. I'm preparing for bad news (such as she is moving forward with the divorce and wants to give me a heads up), but I'm not over thinking anything as well. Could just be a temp check. I'm just assuming she wants to meet with no good news, and anything else will be a bonus. Either way, I'm staying on my track as I'm not affected by her actions.
