I went to see the lawyer yesterday and found out that I have more rights than I thought I had. The lawyer informed me that I could receive 50% custody of the children and that what the W is asking for is unrealistic and unfair. I also found out how expensive this is going to be.
I spoke with the W last night and told her what I had found out and told her that I was not interested in sharing her lawyer. My lawyer told me that using the same lawyer was a bad idea and from everything I have read, she is correct.
Anyway, The W has been acting like she is not sure that a D is what she wants and when I talked to her last night she agreed to a meeting Friday to discuss the possibility of her coming home and working on the M. At first I was happy that she is at least considering coming home but after thinking about it, I started having second thoughts. After everything I've been through over the past year and a half, its going to be extremely hard to look at her the same way. Im probably getting ahead of myself and need to take a step back but im going to have to really forget and forgive before any chance of reconciliation is possible.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16