My little slice of Life 2

[Tofbrks]

Well met with lawyer yesterday morning and went over a few issues. My W had given me a separation agreement she found on web and filled in things to make it ours. Lawyer read over it and made several changes. But the it got real , holidays , birthdays , pick up times.. Ect.. Coming to the realization that this will be the new norm f'n blows ... So mad this is being forced on me.butvtrying to accept my new reality. W did not ask for any support for herself, so L said If she signed that was gone for good. As far as my info that I obtained over the weekend - L now has this , said that also would nix support if it where going to court.


Here is where I am now
I want her out asap... Can't have W living in our house after learning about feelings and actions for om
She has nowhere to go... and house kids
This will stir things up and it shouldn't bother me - not my circus but it does where will kids be ? Safe?
Some stupid part of me still holds out hope but it is small and getting smaller
Then I go back a read the txt's (my new info) and it brings me back to reality
Since D 13 dated the om's son and potentially my W could move in there how would my D ever feel comfortable ?
Sometimes I can't see the weirdness of that total sitch and how things will be looked upon once it gets out ...don't think W has given it a thought either..
The om is a drinker ... Are my kids safe ?
She wanted this nesting agreement where we rotated in and out of our house leaving kids in , I don't think I can stomach that for the year that she wants ... Heck don't think I can do that for more than s month with new info. I was willing to compromise when it appeared that this S was organic but it appears it is of her doing. To me that changes things.