Cop1, you said you were a cop for 10 years. I was military for 5 before leaving to be with my W. Do you remember your training, I'm sure you had people shouting at you, blaming you for stuff you knew was garbage but it was part of the game. I know I had corporals, etc shouting in my face, I had pace sticks an inch from my nose and never bothered me. Over time in my relationship, like yours, we lost that ability to handle anything been thrown at us, said to us. I am working at getting back to that point, that strong character that can handle the spew thrown at us, the random crazy things people would do, I'm sure you saw enough of those in 10 years. I know it's different than a relationship but that's what I'm working on getting back to.
