Working on me and letting it play out

[Coconut]

Hey CBT... Just wanted to let you know I'm still lurking on your thread, but haven't had much input to provide.

I feel you on the PT, it is for you, but it's got to start somewhere. Your recent posts focus mostly on interactions with you and W, but I'm wondering if there have been discussions on PT? Have you asked, or has she told you what is going on in her mind?

One of the things that killed me early in piecing, even while we where in separate bedrooms my W would come into my MBR to use shower and get ready, and her walking around naked with me there was torture.. I never said anything to her, because I did like it, but man it was hard to deal with, but I didn't want her to stop doing it and then have to wait forever for her to start doing it again. Didn't want it to become habit not to do it.

Anyway, it may be for you, but if she doesn't withdraw I wouldn't stop. I started with backrubs, and I totally did it for me, but she liked it and so I kept doing it and went from there. I wouldn't do it too often, but if she is receptive, I wouldn't stop PT.