I see your point. Thanks Mach
I do see that the PT, although small, are for me. Because that is my LL. That is how I temp checked to see what happened. Didn't realize it at the time, but now I see.
I like your example of the first date. LOL


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it