I am not sure giving her a hug was really rushing anything? Should I not be doing that based on where we are at right now in our situation. I am not rushing into trying to ML or anything. But I have been testing the waters with light PT lately just to see her response
So...you are just "temp checking" ?
I want you to see this as part of you trying to define from the past...
Did you expect PT on your first date to Chuck E Cheese ????
And the "touch charges" are potentially a good thing. I just want YOU to see them for what they are, and understand YOUR reasoning behind them, so that you can lower your expectations a bit....
For now, those "touches" are for you. Down the road ? They can potentially make a difference for her.
Be aware of the reality of them, thats all..
The trick is....to be awesome enough that SHE initiates the touches...
