Thanks Mach! That's why I love this forum. You can get a different perspective from others. I never looked at it that way. I am not sure giving her a hug was really rushing anything? Should I not be doing that based on where we are at right now in our situation. I am not rushing into trying to ML or anything. But I have been testing the waters with light PT lately just to see her response
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it