Doing all of this nice guy stuff for her isnt BEING strong. Bringing her ice cream? doing her laundry? That sounds like classic Nice Guy stuff that is not going to endear yourself to her. You seem to think that by doing all of these things, it will bring her closer to you.
Serious question 1: If you never allow her to miss you, why would anything ever change from the status quo?
Serious question 2: Does your W have ANY fear that she could lose you?
Originally Posted By: collin
But I don't know how to prove to her she's wrong.
You cant prove anything to her. You need to be the embodiment of her being wrong. It sounds like you are still catering to her needs instead of working on yourself.
Serious question 3: What does collin 2.0 look like to you? What is your plan to get there?
