Just to clarify on the "no goodnight", my thinking was that she was upstairs at the time, and I would have had to make a trip upstairs solely for the purpose of saying goodnight, which I would have done pre-DB, but it felt needy to do it last night. So it wasn't like I just walked right by her and ignored her -- just didn't seek that little conversation out like I normally would have.
Yes, it does change the analysis if she wasn't in the room. so your 180 is to not seek her out to initiate communication (not ignoring her as I thought), that would be a positive 180.
ps - you mention my tough analysis, please don't think anyone is disciplining you or degrading you because of what your doing or saying.. We have all been right where you are, and all express our help in different ways. I don't beat around the bush, because I like straight talk. If you were to go back and read my thread, you will see it took a lot of 2x4's by others to get me to understand what I told you, now I just want to share to help others.
pps - take darkness' homework questions seriously, focusing on you is where you need to be, and setting goals to work towards goes a long way. by having long term goals, you can easily set the short and mid term goals to get there, and it feels good every time you hit one of those milestones.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
