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[Coconut]

ok, Darkness pretty much nailed it..

but in addition to that specific text chain, I worry that you are having way too much contact with her. I get that you have a child together, and that you feel the need to call at bedtime when he is with her, but now you two are calling each other and facetiming to talk about S when he's with your parents.. and was it really that important that you let her know you paid for the car tag? You two had 4 conversations in one day, that's more than I talked to my W prior to BD, and a whole lot more than I talked to her after BD, she was lucky to get 1 conversation from me.

Look RSG, I know it's difficult, I know that you miss your W and look for anyway you can to open some sort of communication, and it's your life and you get to do what you want. but your best chance of getting her back in the MR, of being a family again, is to back away from her.