Seattle, glad to see you post again, I was curious how things we're going. Hoping your new thread brings a new perspective, a fresh approoach to your DBing, and some wonderful new babysteps. Reading through your summary is very helpful, there were some things in there I'd overlooked. Curious--or did I miss it--have you identified what her primary LL are? I'm looking forward to your list of babysteps. Have you redefined what's working for you, what isn't?
Quote: I've been dark for one week and one day now. Should I initiate contact again?
Is this the longest you've ever gone dark?
BTW, I want to reiterate again how good I think it is that she has been sharing her fears and feelings with you. I think its a very positive sign, a sign of trust, and maybe in time, something more...
