RSG, do me a favor, go back and read your last post as if someone else had written it. What would you tell them about the interactions they posted?
Im not RSG, but Im very confused by many things.
Me: BTW almost forgot did you do therapy or clinic? Her: I have to set it up, but I will. Me: Oh ok. I worry a little about you for S Im having trouble understanding what you mean here. I mean....I get that you are worried. But Im having trouble why you are saying this here and now. Telling her you dont think she is doing a good job as a mom isnt a great way to go about things...
Her: I'm fine, I'm just overwhelmed sometimes by all my decisions. Me: Right Again. What do you mean by "right"? There are so many ways to read that over text. Sarcastic? Agreement? Non-commitance?
Her: You being mean? Me: No. Just don't know what to think sometimes, just try to roll with the punches. Again, this sounds strange to me. What are you trying to gain by saying these kinds of things?
Her: I just talked to him (S) via Facetime, I think he was watching Wally Kazam. Me: He likes that show, now he likes Teletubbies too (Yikes!I wish he didn't, but he's so sweet when he watches it lol) Are you just in your room? Her: Yeah why? Seriously. Why are you asking??
Me: Curious. You just seem content most of the time. Her: I'm gonna go to the gym Me: K Frankly, Id have stopped this conversation at "Oh OK"
I continue to think that pulling back is your best path forward. There is a lot of pursuit in that conversation and you can see that she didnt respond well to it. I think you guys are doing way too much talking and facetiming for people that are separated.
