It sounds like he is trying to be "young" again. He's feeling his age and don't be surprised to hear that his entire body, except his head and eyebrows are being waxed or shaved off. Some go to the "extreme" w/manscaping.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.