I was tough on the EA and OM but soft on everything else. Now that shes changed job and NC with OM i am not sure what my plan is.
What she says: She says she wants to leave, asked for mc only later to admit to see if we can break up amicably then says shes grey about it as in who knows what will happen.
What she does: Changed jobs NC with OM Makes me coffee and breakfast. Transparent. Comes home on-time or tells me if she is going to be late. Includes me in her plans except if its girls night which is very not often. Offered to go halfsies on fixing my car.
Sometime i feel like i want to take the tough route but i recognise that im driven a little bit by anger. What are good examples of going tough routes without ending up issuing ultimatums?
Is it really nc with om? Sounds like a roommate , things that a roommate would be considerate enough to do. Little cake eating if your available for these activities when she wants you there.
Jmho but anger can be good when channeled correctly.
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016
