I have a hard time listening,especially when my spouse is rude and disrespectful.. and I do try to get my point across and I know I should and listening and know not listening is my behavior #1 to do a 180 and w said that she can put her hand up on her heart to a judge to our children and say that I am responsible for the deterioration of the marriage and that is cause I have not listened and interrupt,and feels I have not changed with this. And she is right, I sometimes but in. And am learning to listen.
