Hi Scrant. I haven't found evidence yet of OM but I am getting ready to it mentally. I know it's going to hit me hard and that there is nothing I will be able to do to change it. One thing I know for sure. I won't be part of a love triangle. I am not going to let her eat cake. If she wants to talk to me she will have to dump that guy first. No contact is the best strategy in my opinion to get your ex back.