I was chatting with yougest son and he mentions, "isn't dad in town?" I tell him I don't know. After I hang up with S I call XH and get his VM. I said "Hi its Laurie, give me a call when you have a min."
XH calls back a little later and in a not so nice tone says "Hi this is XH, what did you not think I would remember who you were? Maybe the guy you F*cked last night doesn't remember your name but I do"
He is NOT in town. He was driving in the car and someone he works with was with him.
He asked what I wanted. I told him that I had heard that he was in town and thought it would be nice if we could see each other.
Then he said well you sound upset, I said "well I would appreciate it if you not make comments like that. I don't deserve that.
He said "your right, I'll work on it"
A couple things that bother me.... We just talked on Sat about seeing each other and when we might be able to, yet he didn't mention it to me. OK, maybe that just came about today..... I don't think so though. I don't deserve that comment.
I see this as coming from a person who is REALLY scared to loose me forever. He is brining guilt on himself. He has gotten himself into this position and is still not happy, so he is lashing out. Makes him feel better to say stinging words to me.
It also tells me that he is STILL in replay. That makes me VERY sad.
What does anyone out there think about this?
I am going back to my DARK mode. If XH wants to see me/talk to me, he knows where I am and I'll think about it.
