I've posted previously about this and had some great advice, but I had not been sticking to the DB principles.
I'm now trying to do the last resort technique. My wife has said that we are no longer together, it's over, no going back and she has given up on our marriage. She got quite angry when saying it.
Despite this she has still invited me to go to a family bbq with her and our kids and she says she still wants to do things with the kids as a mum and dad not H and W. We have a holiday booked in September and she still is thinking we are all going still.
I thought there was OM involved but I've done more digging and it appears there is not, but can never be certain, and I can't beleive what my W says about it anyway.
My wife is GAL but I'm struggling to do this and struggling to detach. There is still hope inside me.
Im being nice around her, not questioning her and just trying to follow the LRT as best as possible.
She wants to talk to me when we are sat together, makes me drinks and asks about my day, she hasn't mentioned D for a week or mentioned splitting assets for the same time. But she seems comfortable around me and has a laugh still with me and the kids.
I find this really hard as it makes me want to be affectionate with her, it's easier when she is cold and heartless.
I'm really struggling dealing with things at the moment inside, I've not been emotional to her for a while and just keeping it in.
Last edited by Cadet; 07/06/1604:48 AM. Reason: merged posts
