Do I wait? But I want to have kids...obviously with him. How long do I wait? I don't want to give up.
I just want to say that standing is not waiting. Standing is not STILL.
You must continuously continue to move forward with your life.
Whether that involves dating or not is up to you. I suggest before you date to be divorced and fully healed and whole from this relationship. A new relationship does not mean all your old problems go away. You must still work on those and fix yourself.