Originally Posted By: KyleR

The reason I say I'm in no position is because my W has built up so many walls that I believe she will see it as an attack. I believe that my SIL and MIL are in a better position to voice their/our concerns then me and actually get some positive results.

If they speak to her and there is no improvement I will be forced to take some action though. I am already building a gallery of photos and I'm keeping all correspondence pertaining to my daughters.


Kyle, I hope that you can look past any thoughts about WAW thoughts of you and an attack. That should be irrelevant at this time as the health and safety of your d is in question based on what you have shared.
I understand the thought and desire of being diplomatic with family members that are in direct contact, but I hope that you do not wait more than 1 day to step in for this.
Question. Is your d with your wife in Boston? Or with SIL and MIL? Who is caring for your child? If WAW is not with d, then wouldn't it be imperative that you step in now?

Maybe I am missing something here, or there are details you have not shared, but my hope is that there is not any delay in helping your d. Lice in the manner that you describe is a health issue not only for your d, but for those around her as well.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine