"guessing she is making future plans without you?"

Nope. That's what I'm saying. She is making future plans with me. Like family vacations, concerts, couples dates, etc
Looking at houses and saying "we"

I'm saying WAW will think there is some chance there vs a WW won't even pay any attention as long as an OM is in the picture

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it