I think that for Eid that it would require a death-certificate and pictures of the corpse to get out of a lot of the family obligations that go around that holiday. It varies from family to family I'm sure and not being a follower of the Prophet myself I'm only seeing it from the outside.
AndrewP,
It sounds a lot like Christmas.
If christmas you had to go to each of your relatives houses (both sides) one by one.
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