The start of something... new (again)

[cbtdad]

Betterm I definitely think there is a difference between how you treat a WW vs WAW. I think there is a difference between the two.
In my first situation I had a WW. This time around I have a WAW and can totally tell the difference. My W is looking at houses, talking about future stuff, makes future plans, etc
My WW the first time around had no interest in reconciling at all as long as there was OM around and in sight. She could care less what I did when he was in the picture.
Now she says she sees the change in me, but is still skeptical.
I understand that it's going to take time
I do however worry that my WAW can become WW because she is certainly vulnerable. And I think that is possible in every relationship were a void exist