I wouldn't plan out what I might do or say. Imho, I did this for months and then I had a preconceived notion of how it should go and it Never worked out that way! I have to stop creating stories and conversations in my head so I'm open to new perspectives. My last time that had a pre planned script was ten days ago and the worst fight in years. He said he wanted a divorce then too. It was terrible. Lesson re learned. Colleen
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
