Being there to help v going dark:balance

[lfm]

I don't think it necessarily means "sorry WW not interested" or that she becomes who she was. I think it's more a matter of determining is the person she has become and the person you are becoming going to be able to find a new path forward.

I know in my case my WW and myself have both changed a lot over the 22 years we have known each other. I don't want the person we had each become to be what we move forward with. We both have lots of work to do on ourselves, and until that happens, I know we can't possible consider finding a path forward together. And my WW has not ended her affair yet, so definitely not moving forward with that.

Just my two cents on this subject...