Thought I'd jump in as I barely speak on other people's threads and think I need to start
I used to chase detachment and think it was something I could control but I couldn't be more wrong. The more I used to craze it the more frustrated I'd get by not achieving it.
It was only when I truly saw my WW actions and realised that I didn't want a relationship with the version of my W that I started to let go. I've just had my first really happy weekend since this all started and I'm looking forward to many more.
