Hi jruss. I've bee doing 180 stuff for about two weeks. At the one week mark, I had a really shaken day and really wanted to again try and convince WH what he could do.. I had to bite my tongue, head to the garden and the barn and after dark I did reading. It was better after breaking my habit! Ironically last night H came I to my bedroom, he left mbr about ten days ago, and said " oh, I was just where you went". Interesting. I started to keep a journal on the positive changes noticed in H. I also chart what I see as my successes and my things I now do opposite from before. Poor guy has to do his own laundry!! smile
Hang in there, we're all in this together.
Col


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again