Newby here, desperate for some advice

[tkdmme]

Hey JRuss,

Im no expert at all but these seem like great goals. Its weird. I got the same, "im not attracted to you" 2 days after you did. I did the same chasing her around the house. It did nothing but run her off. She left with the kids just after new years day this year.

Nothing I have done has had any effect on the W. She doesn't respond to anything. Its the most gut wrenching experience I have ever gone through. I followed the rules for a while and saw that it didn't bring her back. At that point I gave up and went completely crazy. I was drinking ever night and chasing women at the bars. It only made me feel worse. I have since stopped the crazy behavior and im back trying to follow the rules again. It still doesn't seem to matter to the W.

Anyway, The point im trying to make is to follow the rules to better yourself, not to get the W back. If she is anything like my W, she will not respond to anything anyway. I hope that im wrong and that you are able to reconcile soon.

If you ever want to read about what not to do, take a look at my thread.