Great perspective, doodler. I'm still hoping that things won't go where things have gone for you, but it's dawning on me pretty powerfully that I'm maybe not going to have much of a say in it, now matter what I do. Thanks again for responding.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)