I've not seen my D11 in weeks because on the weekend I have my D5 she goes to her biological dads house and I don't want to have the girls on alternate weekends as then they will never have a weekend together.

The reason I say I'm in no position is because my W has built up so many walls that I believe she will see it as an attack. I believe that my SIL and MIL are in a better position to voice their/our concerns then me and actually get some positive results.

If they speak to her and there is no improvement I will be forced to take some action though. I am already building a gallery of photos and I'm keeping all correspondence pertaining to my daughters.

Think I need to start a new thread so will be continued.