Thanks, Tofbrks. Do you mean like, if I did some digging, I'd find out she's having an EA or PA? I guess that's possible. That would really change things for me. It would probably make me want a divorce, frankly.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)