Thanks, Tofbrks. Do you mean like, if I did some digging, I'd find out she's having an EA or PA? I guess that's possible. That would really change things for me. It would probably make me want a divorce, frankly.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)