Thank you everyone for dropping by and the kind words! I sooo appreciate it. This is such a weird frame of mind for me to be in. I'm still trying to get accustomed to being D'd.
XH came into town last Wed night, I picked him up from the airport. None of the kids were home and we had the house to ourselves. He did not even hesitate to put his bags in my room. Very snugglie night....
Thurs we both worked and he called to ask if I needed anything on his way home. Then took our oldest S and his fiance out to dinner. NORMAL stuff.
Fri H had he laser eye surgery. All went well. I took him home and tucked him into bed as he needed to sleep for the afternoon, while I ran some errands. That night we all just hung out watching playoffs on TV.
Sat we got up and did some errands together and went to breakfast. He needed to do some work on computer so I did laundry and tidied up. In the afternoon we went for his 24 hour check up then we went downtown and walked around holding hands. We had a late lunch and then had massages. It was a wonderful afternoon.
We went home and made out on the couch. We watched Four Weddings and a Funeral. We had never seen it before. That was not an easy movie to watch. At the end I had some tears coming down and he asked what was wrong. I told him weddings and making promises to love someone forever. Neither of us really wanted to talk about it, and snuggled. After the movie we took the dogs and got Chinese take out.
We talked a lot about his house, he is having a lot of problems with the builder. He asked my opinion on several things and we talked about it a lot.
Ok, so this is two weekends in a row that were simply NORMAL. We spent 4 nights together. Lots of
My thought process is to just enjoy the time and not think too much into it. Even IF we were on our way to getting back together, we have a LONG LONG way to go.
