Quote: I'm sure it helps to know that other ppl are in the same sitch as you, but it's important that we keep the focus on YOU and what YOU can do to make yOURSELF feel better.
Yep, I second that! Put the focus on you, I know this is hard, but it can be done! Drop the rope and move forward. Someday he may decide that things were not that bad with you, meanwhile you build a new you. How many times do we get lost in being a wife and/or mother? We loose who we are and where we were going with our life. Go back to before the R and find you! This is what I'm trying to do. Sometimes I have to take a 2 x 4 to my bitter self though, LOL.
