That's where we differ because I'm confident that there isn't another man involved, Boston wasn't even her first choice. She literally picked the place with the cheapest flights at the time, this has been confirmed to me by a friend present at the time of booking.
Just stopping by to check up on you Kyle, I know the trip is coming up and wanted to make sure your ok. You can do this, just focus on you and your child...
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
From great mood to back down to earth in the space of 12 hours.
My sil has phoned me today concerned that my children are being neglected. Apparently my D11 (who I haven't seen in weeks) is riddled with headlice, literally hundreds of the buggers. She sent me a photo which reduced me to tears.
Document at this point unless you feel it is severe. You know your W better than anyone but if you feel you need to take action to seriously protect your kids then maybe you should discuss woth an IC.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
My SIL was in tears when she phoned me. She informed me that the headlice were literally falling out of her hair and would assume that it has been that way for at least a couple of months.
She also told me that my D11 is starting to smell of BO and her clothes smell sweaty most of the time, it also doesn't look like she has been brushing her teeth and her hair is greasy and horrible.
I've been informed that there's no food in the house and just alcohol in the fridge.
I've told my SIL that if she's this concerned then she needs to tell my W as I'm in no position to do so.
Yikes. Sounds like things are falling apart over there with your W and your poor kids are having to deal with the consequences. I'm not so sure that it's "not your position" to say something if it's truly affecting the health of your children though. I'm not experienced in dealing with sitches with kids, but if those were my kids, walking around, smelly, dingy, greasy, bad teeth, and lice, I'd be calling my L, yesterday.
Also, if your SIL is truly concerned about the kids, and she continues to not speak up to your W for whatever reasons, but instead just keeps telling you about everything... Maybe should could help with the "documentation process" by sending some pics of what might be going on over there (the fridge/food/alcohol, living environment, etc). I wouldn't tell her that's what she's doing (providing documentation), but asking her to send pics of things so you better understand what it's like over there... isn't going to hurt anything.
Kyle, read up on what's going on with me. Your WW isn't communicating with you like mine has, but she is obviously having troubles. Your kids are at stake. If she doesn't want help, that's up to her. You cannot allow your kids to be neglected though!
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
