Thanks cadet. I've been lurking on these boards a while and have read most of the links you sent. I'm reading DB and just got DR. I think the detaching is going well, I'm just not sure about how much h is too much when responding to WH when he is seeing nice like mulch old H. Ideas?
Stick with the mantra of believing nothing he says and half of what he does. Responding is likely not to revela the results you desire.