What do I do? I feel like we need to get back to counseling, because I think it's very helpful. But I can't just drag her there against her will. Should I maybe keep asking in passing if she would like to go? Or just put it aside for a while?
collin,
Short answer: You need to work on yourself.
Longer answer: You need to work on yourself a lot. Forget MC and go to IC. Get a life (GAL). Leave your wife alone. You're oozing with neediness and clinginess; so much so that I'm not even attracted to you.
