Hey doodler - I just popped by to update my own thread.

I think that for Eid that it would require a death-certificate and pictures of the corpse to get out of a lot of the family obligations that go around that holiday. It varies from family to family I'm sure and not being a follower of the Prophet myself I'm only seeing it from the outside.

Good luck Natus. I know in my own sitch that we are still in many ways acting like a couple to the outside world. It does make things less complex while we try to work out where we are going. Otherwise you are inviting all of the friends, neighbours and relatives to take sides on what is probably for you also a very private matter.

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