Do you all think it's common for WAW-in-the-making can lead to Waywardness in the process?
betterm,
My short answer to your question is yes. But, I think my longer answer is better along with the disclaimer that my opinion is based on observation of my wife and from reading posts from members of this forum (i.e. it's anecdotal).
I think the driving force behind a WW is probably comprised of a number of forces. There's family background, preexisting psychological issues, current psychological issues (depression, self esteem), abuse issues, midlife crisis, hormonal changes, and a number of other things that contribute to the WW behavior. I think an affair (EA/PA) is the catalyst and that seems to be the thing that brings the pieces of the puzzle together and serves to cause a break from reality.
I think some women and men are much more susceptible than others. For example, my wife was sexually abused at a young age. Because of that abuse she doesn't have good boundaries. One thing leads to another and soon there's a downward spiral that's difficult to stop. Much like someone with a chemical dependency (or maybe it's exactly like that).
That doesn't really codify all of my thoughts, but it's a start and maybe it'll prompt some additional discussion. I know that Cadet has studied the underlying causes of WAW/WW and can probably provide invaluable input.
All I know is, if you have a fever, the prescription is more cowbell. If you have a WS, the prescription is boxes and tape.
