Hello all and thank you SO much for the thoughts and well wishes. It is awesome to have such a wonderful group of cyber friends! Thank you all!!
Well let's see as far as an update....
I went to FL for a few days away and then a work conference. I had asked XH to come to FL with me. He said he needed to take 30 days to be alone. He paged me several times and called twice, both times at 2am.
Last Friday he sent me a page that he had finally put in an offer on a house. He sent me the web link and it is really nice. I asked if he was excited and he said. "Some what".
He asked if I wanted to come up for the weekend. So I book a flight, pack my bag and off to the airport.
I am through security and he pages me that he will have to cancel. WHAT!!
He said he had too much stuff to get done and if we are going to spend the money he wanted to be able to enjoy every minute with me.
I tell him that I was already at the airport. We go back and forth and he says he still wants me to come up.
He had to meet with the builder of his house, so I got to see it. It will be several weeks before he can move in.
We just did normal stuff. We went to appliance stores to look at refrig. Washers/Dryers, Tv's etc.
He told me that he slept the best he has in a while that night. He asked how I slept, I told him I always sleep well next to him.
His 40th birthday is coming up in a few weeks and I asked if he had any plans and he said to be alone and cry. I offered my shoulder, but he wasn't too receptive, so I left it alone.
We hung out and watched TV together, sat close with our legs over each other. We took a nap together on the couch on Sunday. His roommate was there and he has been a friend and coworker of XH since pre bomb. We all watched part of the playoffs last night.
Just normal stuff.
He paged me when I landed this morning to make sure I made it safely. I thanked him for a nice weekend and that he gave up ironing for me! He responded with a laugh!
He is still on the journey. Heck, so am I with my own feelings and thoughts.
That is the latest. He will also be down this week as he is going to have laser surg on his eyes at the same place that did mine. He asked me to pick him up at the airport and if he took me to work could he use my car on the day before his surg. So I am guessing he is staying with me.
Yickes, I haven't been home hardly at all in almost two weeks! I need to get the house cleaned.
I hope everyone knows that I am keeping up on their threads, I'm just not always feeling like I am in a place to comment.
