Mc will be a waste of time if she is not interested in engaging in the marriage at this time. I suggest you go by yourself and be very mysterious when she inevitably starts asking about the sessions. I dragged my WH to MC right after the affair was uncovered and it was disastrous. However recently my WH requested for us to start MC as he now wants to piece. I am actually holding off until he moves here permanently because it will be ineffective if we can only attend one session a month.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3