I can understand your anger of course. The big thing to remember is you don't get to choose what she is doing. However (crucially) you do get to choose how you respond. And you (and she) will live the paths that you choose.
They say that the best revenge is a life lived well and that's what I would strive for. If you do anything right now, make a choice about how your living arrangements are going to work, given what has happened.
If you want to pack up all of her stuff and put it in the spare room or garage or whatever, that's fine and make sure you are on a reasonable legal footing. But always try to act from a protective (rather than vengeful) motivation.
Believe you me, she is making some poor choices and I think carnage ultimately unfolds from those, whatever you may do. Best to remove yourself from that drama I would say.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
