OK So he kicked me out one night and I wasn't in danger (out of the house) but he wouldn't let me take the kids so I called the police. I'm not sure that I was wrong to do that. But I have told him now that I'm sorry that I called them. I guess my reaction was extreme? I really don't know.
Our lease ended at the last place and since he kept breaking up with me repeatedly (never stating we were back together again but then breaking up again) so that it's hard to believe him now. At that time I thought we were done done so I found my own place then told him that he could stay with me while looking for his own place but I guess since he initiated the break up he just without telling me was not broken up and now we're all here in the new place. He keeps saying he's not sure and will decide by 8/15. He randomly chose that date. We now have separate rooms. I will be careful about not leaving the house. We are co-existing now and not arguing much since we're mostly not discussing issues. I can say "sorry" just not "sorry you feel that way" because then it can be seen that I'M not sorry about MY actions just sorry HE feels the way he does.
I do photography and painting and collages on wood. It's not related to work.
Me 48, him 50 M 13 y daughter 10 & 11 separate rooms since April Called police in Feb
