So I'm still here, still in limbo, unsure what to do. I haven't scheduled the appointment with the therapist yet, plan to this week. The husband and I live our separate lives, but he still wants me to help take care of things he can't handle, like the financial aspects of his art sales, and of course, paying the bills. I spent some time talking with a friend this weekend who has been trying to divorce her wife, but with completely different circumstances, and she was telling me about how a divorce would work out the finances ie my paying him spousal support, the division of the house, etc. I really do'nt know how to do this. I don't know that there is anything left to save of this marriage. He won't talk.
I struggle most with the GAL part. I am so shy. I just don't know where to start. Any ideas? Other shy, introverted types run into this problem?
