Oh I'm sorry Chippie, yes Job is right. I meant not to move out of your house again. It's a mistake lots of LBSs make, but with potential dire legal and emotional consequences.

Actually that whole scenario perplexes me! You got a new place and moved out, and then your H moved into your new place? What happened to your original home, that you shared?

I'm also sorry that you cannot say you're sorry because he thinks that indicates insincerity. LOL Is he eastern European? One of my ex's OW was Lithuanian, and was always accusing me of insincerity if I said I was sorry about something or even asked about her health. Why I cared I really cannot say.

Sure it's okay to do stuff as a family. My DB coach told me to be pleasant when my ex spoke to me, but not to pursue him or pester him or initiate conversations about our relationship.

And to take a good long hard look at myself and change the things that need fixing. And to forgive myself for the things I'd done that contributed to the demise of my marriage, and to resolve to be and do better.

What kind of art do you do? Is it related to your job?


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17