Okay. No, I don't see it as an act of selfishness. I do suggest you contact your lawyer, ASAP, and see if this information could impact the court's decision in alimony, child custody, etc. And, your lawyer can advise about keeping this information under wraps or not. However, with D14 knowing, I doubt that's going to happen.
The lawyer can direct you, legally. Ethically, I believe you have to make the decision.
Sandi2 I just hate she had to find it. Not that I would shield my W actions , I would have preferred that had kids stay innocent of all this mess. But she discovered on her own , without instruction from me. I am going to schedule a meeting with lawyer assp , may have to wait. I do not look forward to W coming home as the full court press for separating will continue. But with my new held info my decision is made easier. All I have to do is remember the words in those txt to strengthen me. Fog or no fog I'm done.
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016
