Red

Thank you for posting.

There is something I would like you to know.

The challenges of being with an entitled SOB like my WH and yours are much greater than would be the case if they weren't.

An old experienced hand like V took over 2 years to cut loose. It's normal.

The expression is 'hoovering' please Google it.

Post again whether he files or no, get the support you need to get away and rebuild yourself.

This is a tough journey and truly you are doing great.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW